I don’t post about it a whole lot, but I’m a dad. I know I’ve mentioned my daughter in this blog before, but I have a reputation as a bit of a public figure, for lack of a better term, and as my profile was starting to raise within the community and my band started to gain a profile, I made a conscious decision to not post about my kid.
Lots of other people do that…no shade… but I wanted for her to be her own person and generate her own online persona IF she even wanted to do that at all.
She has.
Terrific.
I ultimately wanted for her to be recognized as an individual, rather than “Fat Dave’s kid” or “Davey’s daughter” or whatever, and if the price of that is that I get recognized every so often as ‘someone’s dad’ then not only is it a small price to pay, it’s proof that it worked. At this point, I’d rather be the one with a certain level of anonymity, but hey – we carry the chains we forge.
I’m very proud.
She’s done amazing things.
Not the least of which is finish high school (very) recently… she just finished the last of her exams. She’s maintained honours throughout high school up until this semester… but since she got accepted to University back in January, she’s kinda on to the next thing, and understandably so. I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
Next week, she’ll also graduate from The Edmonton Firefighter Cadets program, and it’s quite likely she’ll receive a scholarship upon doing so. It’ll help her get through a very cool program she’s already enrolled in and been accepted to. That program has welcomed her into a very small demographic of people who’ve seen some specific types of fires, and have lived to talk about it.
I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
She’s been a certified yoga instructor for 2 years. She got certified to teach shortly after she turned 16, and may have been the youngest certified yoga instructor in Canada for a while, but she’s been doing it for a while and is less young, so that crown has been claimed by someone in Calgary. At any rate, she’s been leading classes and picking up subbing shifts for a couple years.
I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
She artistic, and musical, and caring.
She’s an entire human, and she feels like one because we’ve made a point of treating her like one. There’s a long way to go yet, of course, but later this summer I will get to be a father to a LEGAL adult JUST as a new baby arrives in our extended family.
You wouldn’t know the difference to look at her, though, since my under-aged kid has multiple tattoos and carries herself like a confident adult. Restaurants mistakenly seat us in the lounge sections on occasion and it’s of no consequence, in spite of some potential legal repercussions. Her mother and I are onboard with tattoos, and for a kid who’s seen adversity, anger, and sadness and still managed to come out the other side of her adolescence while still being a good – no, GREAT person, a tattoo or three is an easy thing to say yes to.
I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
There have been stones in her passway, and she’s maneuvered them – occasionally stumbling, sometimes pretty hard – but has dusted herself off and kept going, like a boss. She’ll continue to do so.
I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
At any rate, she’s a goddamn dynamo. She’s staggeringly funny, and an absolute trailblazer, much like her namesake. She’s carving her own path through this life. I’m proud to be in her corner for absolutely anything, no questions asked, and I’m happy that I’ve found occasion to tell her that. And, even though both of us hold our cards pretty close to our chests…
… I’m sure she’d tell you all about it.
The Conscious Pilgrim 